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I will read the rest of this later but I've read the Me Cult section. I find I agree of course, but there are a few caveats which I think are important because the sovereignty of the indivdual is one of the concepts that the West has got absolutely 100% slam dunk correct over history relative to other cultures. I have worked in hellholes like the tribal areas of Pakistan and Afghanistan where there is absolutely zero concept of the individual whatsoever and societal development has been accordingly retarded. The best anyone can hope for from these highly collective cultures is perhaps to live in somewhere with at least a bit of wealth, perhaps in some fucking Lebanon or Lagos type scenario.

The book to read on this is The WEIRDest People In The World by Joseph Heinrich, who says (essentially) that the west is rich and successful because of Christian taboos against cousin marriage which, to cut his 700 or so pages short, encouraged people to make connections and develop trust networks outside their kin. There are societies round the world today where the strength of kinship is extremely intense, like Nigeria and Afg/Pak. He identifies rates of first cousin marriage as the best proxy measurement. I also read today by coincidence that in Bradford 75% of Pakistani marriages are between first cousins! WEIRD is a superb book by the way; I will not be the first amongst your subscribers to think so.

So no, I don't quite agree with the argument against individualism as presented here, if only because societies with the opposite malady (intense kinship) are even more disastrous. The fetishisation of feeeeeeeeeelings and of victimhood being seen somehow as a virtue is what has gone wrong in the west. This is not disconnected from individualism as such, but is overall a separate (but related) phenomenon to individualism.

Michael Sweeney's avatar

Interesting comment about the ‘me-cult’. These days I increasingly notice narcissistic behaviours turned into political causes.

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